The older you get, the more established you are and more likely to hold onto your name. At 30, I may go either way but at 40, I will definitely keep my name. Changing names is a long and tedious process. Too many people to notify, papers to sign and things to change. And then, it’s telling people ‘call me this now, not that.’ After a brutal divorce, I will change my name back. If after the divorce, we’re on good terms, I will keep my ex’s name. My ex uses this exact same technique – and it is no surprise to me that he is still unmarried and now in his late 40s. Until you are ready to say to a woman, “I’m sorry but we aren’t right for each other,” you will never be ready to be in a real relationship. Like or Dislike: Thumb up 9 Thumb down 0 Reply dimplz says: May 23, 2011 at 9:18 am <p><a href="https://single-ladies.lcvm.nl">Why Crying is Good for the Soul</a></p> <p><a href="https://single-ladies.linksnaar.nl">What Was He Thinking?</a></p> <p><a href="https://single-ladies.psas.nl">If a Woman Was Caught Cheating, Would Her Man Stand By Her?</a></p> <p><a href="https://single-ladies.officetime.nl">3 Reasons Men Hate the Word Monogamy!</a></p> <p><a href="https://single-ladies.linkmolen.nl">Friends With Benefits? No Way!</a></p> <p><a href="https://single-ladies.linkupdate.nl">How to Feel Comfortable With Your Body When You're Dating</a></p> <p><a href="https://single-ladies.time2surf.nl">Do Women Give Too Much To Men in Relationships?</a></p> <p><a href="https://single-ladies.cloudtools.nl">Are You Having an Emotional Affair?</a></p>